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Self-Destructive
Behaviors -
Many of us engage in
what are called self-destructive behaviors. These
behaviors can include, but are not limited to,
binge/restrictive eating, cutting, addictions, abusive relationships, and
rage. These behaviors can destroy your life and there
is no reason you have to continue to live your life hurting
yourself and those who love you. Self-destructive
behaviors are a faulty coping mechanism that one engages in
to relieve themselves of the inescapable emotional pain that
they may be experiencing. When we face chronic,
intense, emotional stress that we can't seem to do anything
about, we often resort to finding creative ways to
cope...sometimes this can mean using physical pain to
distract oneself from the emotional pain.
Childhood
Abuse
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Very often when we
move into our adult years, the pain and suffering of our
childhood can often rob us of being able to live a carefree
life. While it is unnecessary to dwell on and relive
the past, it is imperative to see how the past is effecting
the present and work to reprocess the elements that keep us
stuck from living our lives to the fullest.
Families -
Working with families to get back on track. All
families go through developmental life stages in which there
may be questions of "what the heck is going on here"?
Transitional stages in our lives can be very unsettling to
the family and our relationships. Yet with guidance
through these transitions, you and your family can get
through some tough times much easier.
Survivors
Group -
I run an 8 week abuse survivors
group, with four follow up groups in 2 months intervals.
I believe that working in a group setting is a very
important way to work on the healing process. Sharing
within a group allows for shame to heal and for one to find
a voice that can allow them to begin building on self
reliance. This group is psychoeducational, supportive
and teaches resource building.
Consultations/Presentations -
I am available upon request to make a presentation to your
facility. I can present on any of the topics that I
have written about in my articles or I can prepare a
presentation that will fit the special needs of individuals
in your agency. Please contact me to let me know what
type of services you might need.
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